amanda@tmldogservices.com.au

0422 917 949

Teaching Children Proper Behaviour Around New Dogs

Kids and dogs can be best friends, but children need to learn how to interact with dogs safely and respectfully.  Here are some essential lessons to teach them:


  • Approach Gently:  Always let the dog come to you first. No running up, grabbing, or hugging!
  • No Ear or Tail pulling: Dogs feel pain just like we do.  Teach kids to use soft petting instead.
  • Avoid Sudden Movements or Loud Noises: Sudden jumps, screaming, or rough play can startle a dog and make them nervous.
  • Don't Disturb during Meals or Sleep: Just like humans, dogs don't like being bothered when they're eating or resting.
  • Respect "No" Signals: If a dog walks away or hides, that means they want space.
  • Supervised Playtime: Always supervise interactions to ensure both the child and dogs are comfortable and safe.

​

A great way to reinforce these lessons is through role-playing with stuffed animals or practicing with calm, well-trained dogs under adult supervision.

Creating Safe Spaces for Dogs in Family Homes

Just like kids need their own space to relax, dogs do too!  A well-established safe space helps prevent stress and gives your pup a place to retreat when things get too overwhelming.  Here's how to set one up.


  • Choose a Quiet Spot: Pick an area in your home where the dog can relax without interruptions.  This could be a crate, a cozy corner with a bed, or a separate room.
  • Make it a No-Kid Zone: Teach children that when the dog is in its safe space, it's off-limits.  This helps build trust and reduces anxiety.
  • Provide Comfort Items: A soft bed, favourite toys, and even a blanket with familiar scents can make the space more inviting.
  • Use Positive Reinforcement: Encourage your dog to use the space by offering treats or gently praise when they go there voluntarily.
  • Respect Their Alone Time: If the dog retreats to its safe space, don't force interaction.  This teaches kids the importance of respecting boundaries.

Introducing a Dog into a Family with Kids:  A Guide to Safety, Comfort and Happy Bonds.​


Bringing a dog into your family home is an exciting experience, but it's essential to ensure a smooth transition - especially when kids are involved!  Dogs thrive in environments where they feel safe and respected, and children need to learn how to interact with their furry friend appropriately.  In this guide, we'll cover creating safe spaces for dogs in family homes, recognising sings that a dog is uncomfortable around kids, and teaching children proper behaviour around new dogs.​

Final Thoughts

Introducing a dog into a home with kids can be a heartwarming and rewarding experience when done thoughtfully.  By creating a safe space for your pup, understanding signs of discomfort, and teaching kids how to interact appropriately, you'll set the foundation for a strong and loving bond between your children and their new four legged friend.


With patience, guidance, and respect, your family can create a home where both kids and dogs feel happy, secure and valued. πŸΆβ€οΈπŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦


​Check out Is Your Family Ready for a Dog?

Signs That a Dog is Uncomfortable Around Kids


Even the Friendliest dog can feel overwhelmed or uneasy at time.  Recognising early signs of discomfort can prevent stressful situations and keep everyone safe.  Watch for these common signals: 


  • Yawning or Lip Licking: Often mistaken for sleepiness or hunger these are actually a stress signal in dogs.
  • Turning Away or Avoiding Eye Contact: A dog that is trying to avoid interaction is politely asking for space.
  • Tucked Tail or Cowering: A clear sign of fear or anxiety.
  • Growling or Showing Teeth: This is a warning - never punish a dog for growling!  Instead, assess the situation and remover stressors.
  • Sudden Stillness or "Freezing": This is a serious red flag:  If a dog stops moving and stiffens up, it's best to intervene calmly and redirect the child.

​

Teaching kids to recognise these signals can help prevent negative interactions and foster a respectful relationship between them and their new dog.